Saishang is a place basically only for friends.
New people are certainly welcome. But people
should try to be friends with the people already
in Saishang. Basically Lao Ji's rule is that he
only protects friends. If you are also one of the
friends, then even when there is a fight, it will
be resolved easily. But if you are not interested
in becoming friends with people in Saishang but
only give orders to Lao Ji, certainly it will make
Lao Ji unhappy.
I think that people should remember how Lao Ji
became enemy with Wolf. It is exactly because
Wolf tried to order Lao Ji to do something.